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It is about control, putting the man in charge of the interaction by pushing the woman to earn his approval. “You know,” he says, “you look just like my little sister.” You may never have come across this bizarre phenomenon before, but in various forms it is being practised as a seduction technique around the world. The idea is to undermine a woman's confidence by making backhanded or snide remarks – give a compliment with one hand, and take away with the other.Do I think he was using those techniques sociopathically, instead of natural charm? I think he was terrified of having a typical relationship, and he had set lines so he didn't have to risk actual intimacy.” "Negging" and the pick-up artist was born on internet message-boards in the early '90s, and became a vast subculture, with varying strategies and tribes.It became a global phenomenon following the publication of a book by a music journalist, Neil Strauss. “Your roots are showing,” he says again, gesturing weakly at her hair. Those two lines in the opening scenario are both real approaches recommended by, one of a massive range of websites giving advice on this and other pick-up techniques. ” “If your face was as good as your legs I'd have to marry you.” “Nice eyes – even though one is bigger than the other.” “How brave of you to wear an outfit like that,” and even: “You have a great body. ” (The last interviewee adds that she was, at the time, bulimic.) A day spent browsing – which is full of pleasant little tidbits like: “all women will turn into whores and gang-bang the whole football team if you can bring down her anti-slut defense” – is not a happy day. Someone appears to have given an implicit promise: verbal negativity means sexual success.They stole aspects of neuro-linguistic programming, evolutionary psychology, and some of the techniques of the salesman – the “close”, and so on. They wrote field reports detailing what worked, and what didn't. I put out an appeal online to look for someone who had successfully used negging and would be willing to defend it, and get an immediate response from Dan. “I like to think of it like currency: every insult increases the value of my compliment stock - which I then choose to spent wisely at maximum value and the most opportune moment for maximum effect to make my acquisition.” There it is: “acquisition”. Talk of “targets”, “acquisitions”, “sets” and so on put my teeth on edge.

Hers wasn’t that high to begin with.” It seems, though, that these tactics can sometimes work.The subculture that still worships him ignores this fact, feasting on the beginning of the book and ignoring the personal development at the end. We chat on apps, exchange witty texts, and eventually (hopefully), meet in person — often after hours of anxiously decoding his messages and trying to suss out his level of emotional investment, all before ever laying eyes on each other in the flesh.“I had been feeling quite low, as had recently ended a long-term relationship, and he came up to me and said something like 'you're a bit less hot than your friend, but it's OK, because I fancy you.' Obviously I am a smart, intelligent, confident and successful woman, so should have thrown something at him; but instead I was charmed.“Anyway, at his house I found he had a spreadsheet of all the women he was seeing, colour coded with days and nights.

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